PUTTING THE NEED OF OTHERS!

We regularly find ourselves in positions where our needs come second to those around us. Your needs don’t get met. Ofcource, there are times when this can’t be helped or it’s the only right thing to do.

But when it becomes the norm rather than the exception to the rule, it’s time to look at what you do to prolong it.

Wanting to play fair or kind, we often will put our request on hold or lower our expectations.

Hence make sure you know what you need or want by routinely asking yourself what it is. Many a times we are accustomed to denying our own needs that we no longer know what they are.

Avoid giving in just because its easier or you don’t want to make waves. As many times as it takes to believe it, tell yourself its not selfish to have your needs met; even though it might inconvenience others.